2Ti 4:14-15 Alexander the coppersmith did me great harm; the Lord will repay him according to his deeds. (15) Beware of him yourself, for he strongly opposed our message. Alexander didn't own a car or truck, but if he did...Continue ReadingCars – Do You Watch for His?
Malachi 2:13-14 ESV And this second thing you do. You cover the LORD's altar with tears, with weeping and groaning because he no longer regards the offering or accepts it with favor from your hand. (14) But you say, “Why...Continue ReadingBlame Shifting From Perp to Victim
The following is a comment submitted to me at my other blog, unholycharade.com I am posting it here, and there, as a stand-alone post because of its importance. Many, many thanks to the courageous lady who wrote and shared her...Continue ReadingA Powerful True Account of How False Teaching on Forgiveness is Dangerous
Pro 18:5 It is not good to be partial to the wicked or to deprive the righteous of justice. I listened to a phone message today from a lady I don't know - I don't even know her name. She...Continue ReadingA Lady’s Wise Words about Spotting Evil
I want to announce that I have published a new blog. The title is taken from my book Unholy Charade, which many of you have read. It is available at Amazon (see the link on the home page of this blog)....Continue ReadingA New Blog – Unholy Charade: Unmasking the Domestic Abuser in the Church
Deu 13:6-10 "If your brother, the son of your mother, or your son or your daughter or the wife you embrace or your friend who is as your own soul entices you secretly, saying, 'Let us go and serve other...Continue ReadingWhy is Our Default Tendency to Focus on “Fixing” the Evil Person Rather than Helping His Victim?
1Co 11:28-30 Let a person examine himself, then, and so eat of the bread and drink of the cup. (29) For anyone who eats and drinks without discerning the body eats and drinks judgment on himself. (30) That is why...Continue ReadingBeware the “Happy” Church
1Co 12:20-25 As it is, there are many parts, yet one body. (21) The eye cannot say to the hand, "I have no need of you," nor again the head to the feet, "I have no need of you." (22)...Continue ReadingShame, Inferiority Thinking, and Victims
Most all of you know the sickening pattern. Wicked, evil person hiding in the church behind a disguise of "saint." He victimizes the innocent who then cry out for justice. Victims are marginalized, disbelieved, silenced, and even thrown out of...Continue ReadingThe Reason Churches Protect Abusers and Cast Out Victims is that they do not Fear a Holy God
This past week my wife and I were driving up the interstate when we saw a large billboard that said: Real Christians Forgive Like Jesus The sign also included a Scripture reference, Luke 23:34 And Jesus said, "Father, forgive them,...Continue ReadingThe True Christian Forgives as Jesus Forgives – True, and False